10-11-2018 为什么是我一个人的钱
我也是经常抱怨不知哪儿冒出来的人不准我花钱,现在好多了。听听都是些什么原因:
1:我有钱可以花了,那他们的钱在那里。他们不是在问我要我的钱,他们是在问我他们自己的钱在那里。还连哭带喊得。
我是经常被气到半死。我根本就不认识他们,也从未听说过他们,更没见过他们的钱,他们根本是在一口一声说我偷了他们的钱。我有时气急了就会回答说“一定是藏在你自己的肛门里被你自己给忘记了。那可都是黄金万两。”
2:“你凭什么说那是你的钱”?以及“你凭什么说那是你一个人的钱?”
2-1: 这句话冷静点的问法就是“为什说那是你的钱?”“为什么那是你一个人的钱而不是方家后人公共的钱?”,确实是所有方家后人一定会问的问题。
我所继承的都是信托都是按照遗嘱继承,我在遗嘱上的名字是“女掌”。每一份都按遗嘱,每一个遗嘱都附有掌纹胎记的画像。信托究竟如何规定的确实不是由我决定的,而是在信托设立时就已经书写立在了遗嘱里的。方家后人如有问题,请就继承法和信托法向你自己的律师咨询。
信托继承和一般遗嘱继承的区别就是这些所继承钱财都是早就已经不在那个已经去世的给钱的家里老人的名下,而是这个家里老人在去世前办理了该信托后就已经转入了老人所指定的该信托唯一受益人“女掌”的名下。在我2004年继承后就转入我户籍注册名字"方敏"的名下,每一笔信托都是如此,所以所有这些信托都不是方家后人共同的钱财而是我方敏一个人的。
*女掌是我爷爷们给我起的名字(信托注册名),方敏是我父亲方文海给我起的名字(户籍注册名)。----2018年10月12日更新。
----2018年10月11日。
2-2: 我所继承的不是“芝麻芝麻开开门”,不是什么海盗藏在某个山洞里的金银珠宝在2004年被发现了我连腰都不弯一下就捡到的钱,而是一直都有人在管理的家里已经去世的老人特意留给我的礼物钱, 从来不是什么不知是谁丢在荒地上的钱袋子被发现了所以只要听说了有钱就都应该分一份的。
这些钱更不是美国有钱男人给的性交费,所以不是什么比比谁才是该男人如今最爱就应该够资格拿走的。
2-3: 我曾祖母是自1930年开始就已经寡居,她寡居期间的私人恋爱生活传言是否真实都是与我无关。
听说我爷爷方智仁去世前已经被告知一些传言,在DNA鉴定不普及的1965年,我爷爷方智仁已经就他所听到的传言做了恰当处理。所有一切都与我及方智仁给我的信托无关。
1989年时是否是灵异,即是否是已去世的方智仁在表达对他自己亲生孩子婚姻的担心,我不清楚。我知我父亲兄弟二人的婚姻因为稳定都未被提及,但他好像很关心我是否知道他也有给我一份丰厚的礼物(就是在中国香港投资的那个信托,其他的当时说的是“世界各地”)。
我所有爷爷奶奶的私人生活都与我本人及我继承的信托没有任何关系。
----2018年10月11日。
还有,就是关于我是唯一受益人的说法,
方智仁1965年在上海去世时,有给他的二女一子每人一个银行存折及一封遗嘱。
听说了中国司法部已经查了,目前没有查到1965年去世的方智仁是否在海内外另外留给了他自己的四名子女任何信托或者任何钱财,也已经查实了我方敏是方智仁1948年所设立信托的唯一受益人。
我的曾祖父就是方智仁的父亲,早在1930年就去世了,他的子女也就是我爷爷兄妹三人,是在他们三兄妹共同的亲生母亲照看下分到他的家产。
方家一些后人就是不信他们自己没钱,就是不同意我是这些信托唯一受益人,才闹成现在这个样子。我就一直强调财产的所有权是由法律所决定的,我是唯一受益人是由每一个爷爷的这每一份遗嘱所决定的。
实事求是问一句:他们认为是哪个爷爷有可能会在他们都还没出生,而且都不知会不会有他们这些小孩生在方家的时候,就留给他们一笔钱?有什么特殊原因让他们坚定认为至少一百多年前就已经去世的那些爷爷一定给了他们一笔钱?
我2004年继承时,从未怀疑为何只有我一个人继承,就是因为当时我父母健在,而我爷爷奶奶也早已去世,我自己又从不知自己家里还有钱在海外,所以不管是什么钱,都一定是特意给我的。我从小也很习惯我在方家很特别,但我也很清楚不是我父亲母亲或者我父亲弟妹这么认为。我i父亲母亲对我的宠爱是父母宠女,不是代表方家宠我。
----2018年11月5日。
10-14-2018 Why it is Trust-Inheriting instead of Family Inheriting?(为什么是信托继承而不是分家产继承?)
A lot of anger expressed through these couple of weeks' broadcasting is the anger why everyone supports me to "choose Trust-Inheriting over Family Inheriting"?(这两个星期所表达的愤怒都和为什么这么多人都支持我选择信托继承而不按照分家产继承来谈这些钱的法律归属。)
This has been ridiculous to everyone who knows that Trust laws have been applicable for 1000 years but a true question to those who never heard of it. My father-side family has the tradition of setting up a Trust for each under-age son in family inheriting since ancient that Trust-Inheriting is never unheard of in China, but not to everyone as well.(这种愤怒对很多知道信托法已经存在有1000年的人来说实在是无稽直至, 但对很多人从未听说过信托法历史的人来说确实是他们不明白的地方。我爷爷家里自古就有替每一个年幼尚未成年的儿子在分家产时办一份信托,等他们成年后再提取现金的传统,所以中国也是自古就有信托存在,但也不是每一个人都很清楚。)
No one can choose how to inherit because inheriting has been regulated according to laws since ancient time, to if receive wealth from the deceased should be because of either blood or the will is a very common knowledge to most of the people, another aspect related to inheriting is often ignored which is how to receive the wealth from the deceased.(没人可以选择继承的方式,因为自古以来,如何继承财产就已经是由法律所规范的而非个人可以选择的,是否可以从一个去世的人那里继承到财产是由血原关系或者死者的遗嘱所决定的是很多人都知道的常识,但另一个和继承有关的方面却被大多数人所忽视了,就是这死者财产的法律归属是如何从死者名下转入继承者名下的。)
The ownership transferred from the deceased directly to the living, by blood or by will, is the family-inheriting. The ownership transferred from the deceased to the intended recipient through a third party is the Trust-Inheriting.(财产的法律所有权从死者名下直接转入继承者名下的,凭血原关系或者遗嘱继承,都属于分家产继承。如果这财产的法律所有权是从死者名下通过第三方再转入继承者名下的就是信托继承。)
In detail, my Trust-inheriting as an example, my grandfather transferred some money out of his name to "Female palm(女掌)" when he was a living person but I was not born yet, so he asked a third party(attorney) to set up a Trust look after this money he gave to "female palm", so the ownership of this money transferred to the sole beneficiary person "female palm" of the Trust and would be taken care of by this attorney. (具体来说,以我自己的信托继承为例子,我爷爷在他自己还活着时就将他自己的钱转入了“女掌”的名下,但我那时还没有生,所以我爷爷就找了一个律师设立了一个信托来照看这笔他给了“女掌”的钱,所以这笔钱就此从我爷爷的名下转入了该信托的唯一受益人“女掌”的名下并由该律师负责照看。)
So, this money is no longer my grandfather's money once this Trust set up, but owned by the "female palm" who is the sole beneficiary of this Trust. Who should be this female palm and how this female palm can have this money transferred into this female palm's legal government-registry name are all specified in my grandfather's letter(Trust-settler's letter) of how to set up this Trust.(所以说,在这信托设立以后,这笔钱就不再是我爷爷所拥有的了,而是由该信托的唯一受益人“女掌”所合法拥有。谁才是此“女掌”以及该“女掌”如何才能将这笔钱转入该“女掌”的户籍注册名下,都是我爷爷在设立该信托时就已经在其“信托设立人委托书”里就已经规定了的。)
In my grandfather's settler's letter, he specified the female palm should be a girl born from his eldest son Fang, Wenhai (方文海) who also would share his family birthmark as the attached illustration. In 1967, I was born as Fang, Wenhai's lawful and biological daughter who shares my father Fang, Wenhai's and my grandfather's birthmark exactly as that attached illustration in my grandfather's settler's letter. (在我爷爷的“信托设立人委托书”,我爷爷制定了该女掌是其长子方文海所生的女儿,这个女儿有和他自己一样的掌纹(附有掌纹图)。我是1967年出生,是方文海的婚姻所出的亲生女儿,有着和我父亲方文海及我爷爷一模一样的胎记掌纹,就如我爷爷的“信托设立人委托书”的附图所示。)
So, the money of the Trust my grandfather set up in Hong Kong has been my money since 1948, this money was transferred to my legal government-registry name Min Fang (方敏)in 2004 after my inheriting. (所以,这笔钱从1948年我爷爷替我在香港设立信托开始就已经是我的钱了,这笔钱的法律所有权在2004年我继承后转入我的户籍注册名方敏的名下。)
----October 14th, 2018
Anger from the cousin who was presented on July 1st of 2004 why he was not even asked?(2004年7月1日在场的那个亲戚的愤怒"当时明知他在场,却连问都没问他一声。”)
My response: (我的回应:)
Who should ask him about what? (谁需要就什么问题询问他的意见?)
Money was given by my grandfather, the attorney was hired by my grandfather as well, never his mother (one of my father's younger sister) nor himself. The attorney did not need his permission to fulfill my grandfather's entrusting, I don't need his permission to transfer that money into my lawful registry name, why anyone needs to ask him? Plus, inheriting was the day before.(这钱是我爷爷给我的,律师是我爷爷聘请的,从来不是他妈妈的(我爸爸的一个妹妹)更不是他本人的钱。我爷爷聘用的律师不需要他的授权来执行我爷爷的嘱托,我也不需要他的批准才能把钱转入我自己的户籍注册名。谁需要问问他的意见?何况继承是前一天的事。)
He did ask if he has a share in it and he got the "Nope" answer very politely.(他是有问他是不是也有继承份额,他当时就已经听到“没有”的回答啦,回答的态度是非常客气也非常礼貌的。)
I have some anger as well. When my father did not get a penny in 1965's handsome family-inheriting, none of his siblings felt sorry for my father, no comforting for that from them at all, no comforting gift when my father got married nor when his firstborn was born. My mother married a man who only had an empty employee dorm room with a lot of carton boxes has been my family story. All their tones have been "It is the father(my grandfather) who does not willing to give, it is not their fault and it is absolutely none of their business". My father never blames them nor educates us to blame them as his marriage family. (我也是一腔的愤怒。当我父亲在我爷爷1965年去世分家产时一个子都没有分到,他们是一人一万元人民币。我爸爸的三个弟妹就没有觉得我父亲蛮惨的,当时没有安慰一下,我父亲结婚时也没有,我父亲的第一个孩子出生时也没有。我母亲嫁给我父亲时,我父亲就只有一件空空的员工宿舍房间加上几个纸箱子, 这是当时的街坊邻居都知道的我父母婚姻故事。他们态度始终都是“这是做父亲的(我爷爷)不想给,又不是他们的错,管他们什么事。”我父亲从来就没怪过他弟妹一句,更没教育我们这些他自己的婚姻家庭成员去指责他弟妹。)
When I inherited money in 2004 from the same person (my grandfather), I actually gifted them handsomely and they actually have been educating everybody to blame me. What the fuck is this?(我2004年继承的是同一个人(我爷爷)给的钱,我还有送一份不薄的礼物给他们,他们居然还到处教育别人来一起指责我。这他妈的算什么事?)
----October 14th, 2018
It is a well known doubt if I have money or if I have inherited anything on June 30th of 2004. To myself, as a beneficiary person, the question was what I have inherited. This blog is the diary that recorded this entire discovering journey. Please send me an email at somebodyinma@gmail.com if you think content information is incorrect.
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Three elements to recognize if it is an opportunity to succeed:
1) Can you understand the frustration expressed during the conversation to identify the possible causes of the frustration?
2) Can you identify if you can offer some help from your knowledge, experiences, and expertise?
3) Can you effectively communicate your expertise to be understood as possible helpful solutions?
----Min Fang, July 10th of 2019
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