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Three elements to recognize if it is an opportunity to succeed:

1) Can you understand the frustration expressed during the conversation to identify the possible causes of the frustration?

2) Can you identify if you can offer some help from your knowledge, experiences, and expertise?

3) Can you effectively communicate your expertise to be understood as possible helpful solutions?

----Min Fang, July 10th of 2019


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Thursday, April 13, 2017

04-13-2017 (3)

In People's Republic of China and in this China only, a mother is shit like maid to her daughter in law and this status is enforced by the boy she raise. This is a lot of mothers' teary cries in P. R. China. A father is a little better if he can be a ATM(Debit card) to his daughter in law and that is willingly or not. If he is not capable, he is a useless shit only knows how to eat. This is his own son's opinion too. --April 13, 2017

The problem I have with my younger brother's wife( including his ex) is that she is supported by my younger brother to be the new head of house even they live in my parents place. My parents have to fight for their space in the apartment they bought. This is a typical problem between a sister and a brother in P.R. China. I myself do not give shit to my younger brother and his wife. She is his wife not mine. I am not interest in her. I do not give shit to if she's going on a sex strike. I do not her her butts in anyway or anyhow to care. How my younger brother is going to find his sex relieve should never be my concern. I refuse to be the person bow to a her for my younger brother's sex desire. I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse!I refuse! I refuse! I refuse!  --April 13th, 2017

In 07/01/2004 conference, someone joked I was this person's or that person's mother. I was not offended since I am 15 years junior and obviously looks younger. But jokingly make me a mother in law to be abused and to spend my money against my wish, my response is : I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! I refuse! (Nine times "refuse" in Chinese culture means refuse permanently). --April 13, 2017