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Three elements to recognize if it is an opportunity to succeed:

1) Can you understand the frustration expressed during the conversation to identify the possible causes of the frustration?

2) Can you identify if you can offer some help from your knowledge, experiences, and expertise?

3) Can you effectively communicate your expertise to be understood as possible helpful solutions?

----Min Fang, July 10th of 2019


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Horrible 1980 time's typical "How could it possible" (恐怖的八十年代“就这样”)

Horrible 1980 time's typical "How could it possible"   (恐怖的八十年代“就这样”)

Heard my father is alive.
My response: I heard through this morning's messy arguments that my father is alive but he is not his own pension or provided through Chinese government's welfare as I am provided through U.S. government welfare system.

It was decided on July 1st of 2004 that my mother would have some financial help because she lost her pension. I do not remember what is the financial arrangement decided about my father because he should have his pension from Chinese Academy of Science Nanjing Purple Mountain Observatory. It was not about to save some expenses, I knew for certain from my own experience of living in China after 1980 time, they won't have a chance to enjoy what I provided for them without me ensuring that. It did shock me how he could be threatened to "lose" his own pension. He may be on the emergency arrangement of my providing.

A lot of people have puzzled how that rumor could be possible, it is actually the typical 1980 is about. This "how could it possible" is possibly the same reason that my father got up from the ground on his own and left home without taking his Bankcard where his pension should be deposited. He was announced dead after he ousted from his own home this way.

The rumor I heard is he was pushed out of a moving vehicle after he was pretty much dragged in. And when he was threatened that Do not call the police, Do not try to the get pension, and if he dares to demand the pension, he won't have a next meal to eat. By rumor, my father was pushed out by the current Chinese Premier Li, and all these threats were told by a female with the current Chinese Premiere's Li's presence. I heard this rumor can be verified from Satellite records.

The typical 1980 means there was no pre-arrangement to ensure my father could get up from his fall, there was no pre-arrangement to let my father have some food or lodging. And it means that after all these were said, my father has nothing to do with those who pushed him out of the moving vehicle and threatened him unless my father called police or demanding his pension. My father is not the person know this language smartness. He just got up and left home without his pension. When I finally have some cash to call his home phone in January of 2015, I was told my father was announced dead on October 4th, 2013. I survived similar "how could it possible" situation in 2014 and I started to call police ever since I was told I am supposed to live in poverty and die in this apartment I am currently residing.

Another typical 1980 is, for example, if you do not have a bank card or a bank statement, the bank employee who opened your banking account can tell you know nothing about if you have any saving in this bank. If you go to the Clear Channel radio company now, this "no such money in our keeping " may be the standard answer you will hear if you ask where is my major featured person fee. I did not receive a penny and I did not have any reference to say there is such a radio program ever produced by Clear Channel (IHeartRadio), even though it was such a worldwide popular radio program. In 2016 time, I was still on Boston 96.9FM when there was rumored that radio company would pay this $3Billion major featured person fee. And the Jessica group took it with nothing wrong attitude and till today, it is not in my possession. No lawsuit about it because I can't even afford attorney fees. I called police on this as well.

I am searching for my father because I saw his searching me advertising he requested to be posted on August 11 of 2015 on Chinese Consulate website.
http://newyork.china-consulate.org/chn/fwzc/zxtz/t1070938.htm




Following was posted by my younger brother, as he told me, on August 29th of 2013. My father's one is August 11th which two weeks before this August 29th which means unlikely an automatic extension.(2013年是我弟弟所登。但这2015年是在到期2个星期之前,不是什么自动延期)。
(http://www.fmprc.gov.cn/ce/cgny/chn/lsyw/lsbh/xqxx1/t1070938.htm)



----February 4th, 2018


听说了我父亲确实还在。
我的回应:听说今天早上的广播是乱七八糟的,不过结论就是我父亲还在,但不是由中国的民政系统提供生活资助。

因为我母亲在80年代时失去了退休金,2004年7月1日我信托财产那天有决定我母亲由我供给生活费用。我不记得我父亲的生活费用是怎么决定的,因为他应该有中科院南京紫金山天文台的退休金。不是我不肯替他付钱,我经历过中国的八十后年代,没有我在旁边盯着,他们根本没有可能用到这笔钱。我父亲居然会被恐吓而“失去”他的退休金,确实是挺吓人的。他有可能有一些紧急援助给付。

很多人都很奇怪,哪有可能会有这种传言, 其实这是典型的1980年代。这一份“哪有可能会就这样啊”可能是我父亲从地上自己爬起来,然后就这么没拿退休金提款卡就离开了家。他被这么赶出门后就被“宣告死亡”了。

我听说的传言是我父亲是被拖进小轿车里在被从启动的车里给推出去的。当时我父亲就被恐吓说不得报警,不得要求去拿退休金否则就没下一口饭吃。根据传言,我父亲是被中国的现任李总理给推出汽车的,又是在现任李总理在场时被恐吓的。我听说这传言是可以被卫星录像所核实的。

1980年“就是这样”的意思就是说没有任何事先的考量以确保我父亲可以从地上能够自己爬起来,没有事先的安排以保障我父亲有饭吃有房子住,而在把我父亲推出车说完这些话之后,我父亲就和他们这一车的人没有任何关系了,除非我父亲敢去报警,或者吵着要退休金。我父亲不是弄的清这种语言机智的人。他就是站起来也没有拿退休金提款卡就离开家了。当我终于有了一点现金打电话回家时,我被告知我父亲是2013年10月4日“去世了”。 我熬过了2014年类似这种“哪有可能”的时期,2014年底我一听到我就是应该生活在贫困里就是应该在我现在这个房子里穷死,我就开始报警了。

1980年代的另一个“就是这样”的例子,就是如果你手上没有一张银行的提款卡,或者银行的月结单,就是那同一个曾经帮你开户的银行职员会告诉你完全不知道你是否有银行户头在他们的银行里。如果你去清晰频道广播公司(IHeartRadio)探寻我的主要人物的那份收入在哪,你会听到标准答案"我们账上没有这笔钱”。我至今没有收到一分一厘,我也没有任何线索可以说请究竟是什么广播剧,尽管那是一个曾经如此全球红火的广播剧。2016年时,我还在波士顿96.9FM上时,从听说广播公司要付这30亿美金主要人物费用了,到广播公司付出后由Jessica那一帮人拿走,就是一副天经地义,到今天,我就没看见这30亿美金。因为我手上没钱所以请不起律师没有办法打官司。我是就此报警了。

我在找我的父亲就是因为我看见2015年8月11日等在外交部网站上的他在找我的广告。
http://newyork.china-consulate.org/chn/fwzc/zxtz/t1070938.htm

----2018年2月4日。