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Three elements to recognize if it is an opportunity to succeed:

1) Can you understand the frustration expressed during the conversation to identify the possible causes of the frustration?

2) Can you identify if you can offer some help from your knowledge, experiences, and expertise?

3) Can you effectively communicate your expertise to be understood as possible helpful solutions?

----Min Fang, July 10th of 2019


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Tuesday, October 2, 2018

10-02-2018 Just a small note

10-02-2018 Just a small note

There has been a lot of questions about,  exactly why I dislike 1989 student group, why I so respect the 1921's communist party leaders, why not understand them both as young people with passion?
The huge difference is:  1921's communist party leaders enjoy benefit-loss analysis based on how to benefit the Chinese people even though their calculation may have been so not reasonable; 1989's student group's benefit-loss analysis, from my own impression, is all about what themselves want to be, what themselves want to have, what themselves truly should deserve.

How about myself? I am very protective of my own interest, but I don't step on other people's toes as well, seldom at least. 

----10-02-2018

听说吧,在中国,89年学运的烙印就是89年以后就有一批的愤青,海外89年学运人士就是国内的街头混混或者文痞形象。我是1996年来美国,听说那时的89年学运人士就已经是海外华裔社区普遍认可的头疼和脑热。估计是一群胸怀大志高挑远望,就是不接地气,剩下的就是一地烂摊子。国内估计是换个工作不容易,所以空有一腔宏愿,单位领导就是绝不再给机会,海外换个工作非常容易,也就是“此处不留爷,自有留爷处。”

至于我自己,风格就是没什么声音,在中国城也就是吃吃饭,买买菜,除了来找茬的华人,确实没有任何因为工作学习及生活原因所形成的华裔社交圈,那些哭嚎为我头疼脑热看不下去的华人都是自己找上门来找茬的。我是早就已经就那些专门上门找茬的可能原因报警了。

在经历了自2004年就已经开始的华裔社区针对我方敏婚姻的仇恨,如果现在中国中央及各地方政府或者任何华人用任何语言说一句”衷心希望你能有一个幸福的婚姻“,那是全世界各族裔各种语言的人民都是不需要任何翻译解释就已经知道的绝对的彻头彻尾的谎言。这也是我方敏对于海内外华人普遍都有花痴精神病而且症状非常严重最深刻的认知。”没有了你们,永远不意味着失去“是我方敏作为中国政府自2004年以后通过中国外交部在海内外恶意组织制造事件的受害人就事件的真实态度立场,我方敏也永远不会认为哭丧干嚎从此“祝你还能有个婚姻”有可能会是任何非精神病状态人士对事件处理的方式。

至于洛克菲勒家族在2012年我有自己小孩都已经公开宣布的情况下,还需要在2013年开始发情干嚎的真实原因究竟是什么,我已经在美国报警。

----2018年10月2日。