Heard this morning's broadcasting that the glamor and talented Ina has been on this radio producing efforts that I accused as blackmail. Being talented herself, why she has problems with hard-earned fame? I search online and found out her husband carries the famous family resemblance obviously. She is a wife to a big name in a happy marriage probably is the reason for all these challenges.
I am an heir-daughter of a long history name whose privileges are protected, she is a daughter-in-law to a big wealthy business name who deserves the same privileges. This longtime struggle may have been shared among a lot of daughters-in-law who mistook my privileges are from being important enough to the big names' family seniors. This is a huge misunderstanding that my "huge success" in 2004 came from the romance, July 1st of 2004 was a big day in my life because it was the next day I inherited my grandfathers' blessing. That day was the day it was all about me and all about what I wanted because that day was my inheriting shopping spray day. My hard-earned fame glory day was on June 30th of 2004 when I participated in the conversation that led to the smartphone's invention.
I am a daughter of a big historic name whose privileges have already been acknowledged since I was born so that I was relaxed on the desire to prove to everyone I know that I have inherited some handsome blessing. I was a computer science engineer who also graduated from a medical college and had learned the basic medical system that my preference on spending my money is different to a lot of girls. I enjoy fashion, but fanciful life is not what I am not familiar with in my family's stories, I paid attention to my overall health and a healthy lifestyle more logically, of course, was the reason that my handsome spending on my own health and my own well-being has been invisible to a lot of people. My living expenses are not supposed to be shabby either, I am current just caught up in the situation called "impacted by the ownership confusion".
Being a daughter, I have learned a lot of family education on my way of growing up. One of the teachings my father had taught me was trying to listen instead of kept on expressing. So, I have learned to listen to other people's thoughts and I have learned how to recognize what sparks in other people's expression, which has been so beneficial to my own expression when I have my own thoughts. I would assume how not easy it has been to build up such a big family name has been part of the family education a daughter has brought up with, which must be such a treasure a daughter-in-law who must have been so envious of.
I have been constantly insulted to prove that I have some big money visibly, and I can imagine the pressure a lot of daughters-in-law may have been under to prove that they do have marriages truly appreciated by the big family names. I have been annoyed by all these competitions & challenges regarding who I am, and I don't have any prescription for any of them to help them to ease tons of pressures that drive them to challenge as such, but I would say it is better not to extend this pressure-handling to the family's business-investment because the old saying I listen to: "Don't party at the place you eat".
----Sept 30th, 2018