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1) Can you understand the frustration expressed during the conversation to identify the possible causes of the frustration?

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3) Can you effectively communicate your expertise to be understood as possible helpful solutions?

----Min Fang, July 10th of 2019


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Wednesday, November 22, 2017

11-22-2017 The U.S. military is the Authority on U.S. Military matters, not a house wife.

11-22-2017 The U.S. military is the Authority on U.S. Military matters, not a housewife.

Heard this morning's "impossible a 3-stars General" angry confrontation from a housewife.
My response: I am a 3-stars U.S. Military General, a Strategist not enlisted. This was validated by a U.S. military spokesperson on the radio program on Oct. 11th or Nov. 8th, 2017 or so when my lifetime achievements were acknowledged. That is the reason I am authorized by U.S. Molitary to wear U.S. Military 3-stars General's Service Dress Uniforms.

I advise this housewife, who may be very prominent in the People's Republic of China, to hold her tongue on who should be the authority on U.S. military matters.

*3-stars U.S. Military General, a Strategist not enlisted.
退役三星将军参谋长。

*A Strategist is a combat research position, not a technology or medical research position.
参谋长属战斗部队编制军衔而非科技或医学研究编制军衔。

*A Strategist is a combat officer, not a supply officer.
参谋长是战斗部队将官,不是后勤部队将官。

----Nov. 22nd, 2017


About "Lined-up" marriage and its bow loop.
My response: A lined-up marriage is a term referring to some married couples that grouped by father another man's wife's child or mother another woman's husband's child. No child shared between married husband and wife.

It has weird bow rule that father of the child bow to the husband of the child's mother; and the mother of the child bow to the wife of the child's father.

And any husband or wife in any sequential number of marriage in this "lined-up marriage" can be a doggie bottom if the marriage partner is the need-to-bow-to and two adjacent marriage are coping willingly or not willing to make this husband or wife a bow only.


The Father of the Child -------->

                  Husband 1 -> Husband2 -> Husband 3->Husband4->Husband5
                                                              ⇈                                                  
                        Wife1<------ Wife 2<-----Wife 3<-----Wife 4<-------Wife 5

                                      Above: Illustrating that the Doggie Bottom is Wife 3

                                                                                                           <-------The Mother of the Child

In this loop, wife 3 need t bow to her own husband in her marriage, father of her child (husband 2) cannot help her because he needs to bow, for some reason, to his wife in his own marriage as well, and mother of her husband's child is not willing to bow to her because father of her child (husband 3) is this wife 3 bows to and willing to spoil her (wife 4).


The Father of the Child -------->

                  Husband 1 -> Husband2 -> Husband 3->Husband4->Husband5
                                                                                                                  
                         Wife1<------ Wife 2<-----Wife 3<-----Wife 4<-------Wife 5

                                  Above: Illustrating that the Doggie Bottom is Husband 3

                                                                                                              <-------The Mother of the Child


In this loop, Husband3 need t bow to his own wife in his marriage, mother of his child (wife 4) cannot help him because she needs to bow to her husband, for some reason, in her own marriage as well, and father of his wife's child is not willing to bow to him because mother of his child (wife 3) is this husband3 bows to and willing to support him (husband2).


I screamed out loud in 2015 that I was a doggie bottom because of this "line-up marriage" just by rumors. I refused to be that wife 3 in this illustration loop just by rumors. I refuse.

I just wonder why any financial well-being male or female would willing to be in this doggie bottom?

----Nov. 22nd, 2017