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Three elements to recognize if it is an opportunity to succeed:

1) Can you understand the frustration expressed during the conversation to identify the possible causes of the frustration?

2) Can you identify if you can offer some help from your knowledge, experiences, and expertise?

3) Can you effectively communicate your expertise to be understood as possible helpful solutions?

----Min Fang, July 10th of 2019


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Saturday, July 8, 2017

07-08-2017 My complains and my explanations(我的抱怨和我的解释)

07-08-2017 My complains and my explanations(我的抱怨和我的解释)

Heard this morning sayings about government "don't do anything about this". (中文附后)
My response: I add what I heard: Tina O'Connor (Helena O'Connor) was, may still is, representing US Foreign department on anything about me. Heard she and her husband both have some cousins also work for US Foreign Department. I will sue, if what I hear is true,  this obviously helped sexual harassment or may be hatred crimes according to laws of US as we all citizens of.
----July 8th, 2017

The radio program continuing broadcasting has been upon my request as "blackmail propaganda" victim. It has been almost two years I have kept calling US government's help via sending emails to its Justice and Internal representatives FBI.

My complains about US government are not about radio program producing, but possible participation of promoting this radio program. Why I need to be a disgusting, horrible and unwanted to a man through promotion of this radio program, why I need to be shitted like this or to have public image like this by government agency?
----July 8th, 2017

Heard this morning's anger about all those "what I want" on July 1st of 2004.
My response: I did hear anger explosion from his family attorneys when I was all about "what I want" on July 1st of 2004.
I knew myself and a lot of my representatives who really care about him did not knew he really thought I do not have my own wealth, we all took his complains of my spending as a hearty joke to express his congratulations of my inheriting. I assume there were some who care about him aware his complains were real, but may not feel appropriate to inform him about my inheritances in the meeting or they failed to let him to understand I was spending my own money based on the assumption he must have heard or knew about my inheriting just the day before, I heard he was assured and promised those "I want" won't be his spending or his father's at the meeting.
So I say if I was indeed spending his money, I would experience the same "cut off" immediately by his own effort. Heard the rumor that the complainer was a recording studio staff on June 30th of 2004, it is possible she could be this anger because she may be helped to forget what she had heard before she was ordered to leave studio. Heard she was uncontrollable excited and was screaming to tell everyone what she heard when she was ordered to leave studio on June 30th, 2004.
----July 8th, 2017

Heard this morning's complain that I am not privileged, no matter how real achieved or wealthy I am,  to look down Chinese mainland-er to call them like "rural came to the city".
My response: I am this privileged. I was shitted as you heard on the radio and in Chinese Community from those Chinese mainland-ers for the past decade. Compare to those blackmails which they call "teaching" they did to me based on the "rich knowledge" they knew about US or "Western Upper Rich class"as Chinese citizen & residents,  it is very appropriate, as one also came from Chinese mainland, to remind them they do sound like they are vividly from Chinese slang "rural came to the city".
I called them that on Boston 96.9 FM when I was screaming why they don't let me talk. They yell "shut up" to me whenever I tried to talk, and in the mean time reading a printout of something( not some announcements) just to show off their English. I was frustrated to pissed off. That was my complain "Why China do not let me say "Lion King Fund" is my own money?" "Lion King Fund" is the nick name I call to refer the fund commonly mistaken as O'Connors' family wealth.
----July 8th, 2017


听说了今天早上播出的政府“就此什么都不做”的说法。
我的回应:我加上我听说的:Tina O'Connor (Helena O'Connor") 过去(可能还包括现在)都是美国政府外交部代表处理有关我的一切事物。听说她和她的丈夫都有一些亲戚在美国外交部任职。如果我听说的是真实,我会就这种明显是得到帮助的性骚扰甚至仇恨犯罪行为提出诉讼,这是做为美国公民(统统都是)在按照美国的相关法律进行法律处理。
----2017年7月8日。

广播剧持续播出是我做为“造谣诽谤宣传”造成名誉受损的受害人自己提出的要求。有将近两年的时间我是一直不停地通过电邮美国政府国内司法事物的代表(联邦调查局)向美国政府寻求帮助。

我对美国政府的投诉不是广播剧的制作而是其可能参与广播剧的推销播出活动。为什么需要通过广播剧把我宣传成一个“对男人来说是个恶心,可恶且没人要的东西”?为什么是政府机关需要把我变成这么一个公众形象?
----2017年7月8日。

听说了今天早上有关我2004年7月1日说了一堆“我想要”却没人阻止的愤怒。
我的回应:我也听说了我2004年7月1日的那堆“我想要”引发了他们家很多代理人的一腔愤怒就在当日当时爆发。
我知道我自己和我的一些非常关心他的代理确实不知道他真的以为我没有自己的财产,我们都把他的抱怨当成很让我们开心的"恭喜你继承了"玩笑而已。我猜测有些很在乎他的可能知道他的抱怨是真实而不是玩笑,但可能因为一些原因觉得不太适合当时纠正他的误解,或是也都以为他知道我前一天的继承而试图向他解释我是在花我自己的钱但没被他听明白, 我是有听说他当时是一再的得到保证我花的一定不会是他或他父亲的钱。
所以我说我当时如果真是想花他的钱的话,我的那个话筒是一定会被他自己奋力掐断而有效阻止那一堆"我想要的”。听说抱怨的就是2004年6月30日录音室的女军官。她的愤怒真实有可能因为她是在帮助下彻底给忘了她6月30日听从命令离开录音室之前所听到的。我听说她离开录音室时实在太激动根本忍不住对着所有她一路遇见的人扯着嗓门的喊她都听到些什么。

----2017年7月8日。

听说今天早上的抱怨说我就是再真实有钱有成就, 都没有资格瞧不起中国大陆新来的把他们说成是”乡巴佬进了城“。
我的回应:我还真是有这个“特殊待遇”资格。过去十多年在华裔社区里,前一阵子在广播上你们都听到这些“中国代表”把我骂的惨不忍听。我说他们是在造谣诽谤谩骂羞辱,他们说这是在用他们的“对美国及西方上流有钱阶层的丰富了解知识”在教育教育我;有没有搞错啊,他们统统都是长期在中国工作生活的中国公民呀。所以作为一个也是从中国大陆出来的,我是非常合适的人选提醒他们:他们听着就是活生生中国哩语“乡巴佬进了城”似的人物。
我是在波士顿96.9FM上嘶吼他们为什么不让我说话时讲这话的。当时是每逢我想说话,他们就大吼“闭嘴”而他们自己是朗读一段英语文章(不是什么申明之类)来表明他们英语好的不得了。我是给烦的气极了。这也是为什么我指责“为什么中国不准我说“狮子王基金”是我自己的钱?” 我喜欢用“狮子王基金”来称呼的那个基金经常被误认为是O'Connor家族的财产但其实是我的钱。
----2017年7月8日。