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3) Can you effectively communicate your expertise to be understood as possible helpful solutions?

----Min Fang, July 10th of 2019


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Monday, November 12, 2018

11-12-2018 My father's Related Confusion ---- Military Dishonorable Release (和我父亲有关的 ---- 被开除军籍的处分)

爸爸,你的“被开除军籍”处分,很多不是勘探兵的现役和退伍军人都没听懂,不知道那是部队对于你们几个受影响的人最合适的安排和最安全的保护,他们都认为那是很严重的处分,我听说有很多人甚至认为中国方面2013年对你的态度其实是在执行军事法庭当年的处罚,我已经就我所知道的在我的博文里做了解释,在很多人还没听说过我的解释也不太弄得明白的情况下,多小心。

我听说的是,那个观测站一年有七个月是深埋在厚沙下面,只有通气口,没有任何光线,观测站除了观测设施,没有任何其他物品也没有多余空间,只能容纳一人。广播局所报道的几个人当时都是已经连续三年单人驻扎如此恶劣环境,全部都已经有了心理已经难以承受如此环境的临床心理症状。我的解释博文如下。

I heard a lot of veterans and enlisted who have not been mapping specialist did not understand the featured story about my father's dishonorable release. What I heard is: The observatory is located in the area that covered by thick sands seven months each year, not natural light nor electric, no extra space other than limited space for equipment and one person. I heard all of those featured person in that episode had developed psychological symptoms of unbearable-ness after three years consecutive one-person's assignment in such observatory. Following was my original explanation about this "dishonorable discharge".

----March 21st, 2019


11-12-2018 My father's Related ---- Military Dishonorable Release (和我父亲有关的 ---- 被开除军籍的处分)



Military Dishonorable Release (被开除军籍的处分)
My father got a dishonorable release from Chinese Military after his five years service, including three years in a one person's observatory deep and deep in the desert, what could possibly the misconduct he did that cost him such? He disobeyed the order of an extended another three years at the same post. 我父亲在中国军队服役五年,包括在沙漠无人区观测站一个人驻扎整整三年,却是被开除军籍离开中国人民解放军的。我父亲究竟做了什么违反军纪的事情,会导致如此严重处分?我听说当时是因为我父亲违抗军令拒绝再在同一个沙漠观测站再待三年。

That post locates near the spot where famous scientist Peng, Jiamu went missing June of 1980, a supposed one year's post. My father was the first person assigned to this post for three years and was ordered to stay for another three years prompted my father's disobeying. The Marshall Court's ruling was my father got dishonorable release and his direct commander(assigner) went in himself for three years. (那个观测站就位于著名的科学家彭家木1980年6月失踪的沙漠地区,本应是一个任命为期一年的无人区观测站。我父亲是第一个奉令驻扎三年的军人,他被同一个长官命令再在同一个观察站驻扎三年是我父亲拒绝执行该军令的原因。当年的军事法庭裁决是我父亲因不执行军令被开除军籍,他的长官自己进该沙漠无人区观察站驻扎三年。)

I heard in my father's commanding chain, my father's direct commander was the only person who never had any assignment nor experience to work in a desert post was the reason for the entire matter.(我听说我父亲的整个上级领导单位里,只有这个顶头上司从未有过奉令驻守沙漠观察站或者类似的沙漠无人区工作经验,是整个事件及处理意见的原因。)

That post located in a real no man's land that no one can survive after three-days walking on feet. I heard my father's commander was re-assigned after a year. I heard that post was changed to a group post after my father's commander staying. I heard this was the featured broadcasted when my father's military experienced was first featured over 8 years ago that a lot of civilian audiences did not get. (那个观测站位于沙漠无人区内,没人可以在步行三天后还能存活。我听说我父亲的长官是在一年以后被调离该观察站。我听说自从我父亲的长官被调离后,那个观测站被调整成了小组观测站。我听说这是八年多以前我父亲从军经历首次播出时的故事,但好像是很多没当过兵的普通老百姓统统都没听懂的故事。)

Why my father never complain if this Marshall Court ruling was unfair? Possibly, my father felt more comfortable this is the ruling that makes no one can keep him in Chinese Military to have any such assignment anymore. My father was a Mapping specialist that had one year's military training which required for a minimum 5 years service but eligible to be extended to 20 years if his release request not approved.(为什么我父亲从未抱怨军事法庭的如此裁决对我父亲是否公平?我估计,我父亲可能是认为这个裁决一下来,就没人可以让他再留在军队里,再给他类似的工作安排。我父亲当时是观测兵,属部队培训的技术兵种,至少需服役五年,但可延长至20年。服役期间如想离开部队需申请转业,转业申请如不批准就不得离开部队,直到20年的最高服役期满。)


----Nov. 12th, 2018


Should the rumored man who seeded in my younger brother's marriage the same equal husband in his marriage?
My response: I have nothing to do with my younger brother's marriage. If that male should be the same equal husband in my younger brother's marriage is never my business. I have refused to be associated with my younger brother's marriage family, which of course includes no association with any matter related to if my younger brother's marriage should have another same equal husband because of a birth child.

那个给我弟弟的老婆下种的男人是否应该被认为是我弟弟婚姻里另一个应该平等权利的丈夫?
我的回答:我和所有这些人及事都是一点关系都没有。那个男的是不是我弟弟婚姻里的二房丈夫都和我无关。我早就已经拒绝和我弟弟的婚姻家庭之间的任何关系,当然也就是已经包括了拒绝了所有任何一切和我弟弟的婚姻相关的事宜,以及·他的婚姻是否应该平等对待已经生了个亲生孩子的另一房丈夫的事宜。

----Nov. 12th, 2018