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Three elements to recognize if it is an opportunity to succeed:

1) Can you understand the frustration expressed during the conversation to identify the possible causes of the frustration?

2) Can you identify if you can offer some help from your knowledge, experiences, and expertise?

3) Can you effectively communicate your expertise to be understood as possible helpful solutions?

----Min Fang, July 10th of 2019


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Thursday, May 25, 2017

05-25-2017 Scheme PRC80 Style

Heard this morning's outcry:"I have his father's wealth already, why don't you listen?" Heard a lot of wealthy man's wives have similar but different outcries:"I am his wife already, why don't you listen?"
I gossip: why different? Heard rumors, way back, his father willed his wealth to her instead of him. But his father keep saying publicly and privately that he only listen to his son's request.

Heard it is his request to his father about will. Not sure if it is the same style you heard on the radio about if he father any of her children. I bet not many people, including expert level Chinese community audience, has figured out if he biologically father any of her children yet.

Why I say Chinese community expert level audience? It is Scheme PRC80 (Chinese 1980 horrible trading scheme) style. In joking tone, in bluffing way and in laughs, everything said is actually a true statement. It means to take advantage and really mean it, it never sounds like only, Not a single syllable is a joke or non-sense. This style is in everybody's daily life more or less in China. If you asking anyone you know in Chinese community from mainland China, you would hear the confusion that she keep announce her children to be called his children even without his blood, he keep echo yes and then change saying he has no child with her or he is certain that her children carry his blood. What did the trick? Other than rumored microphone fighting in the radio company, don't know.
----May 25th, 2017